Wherever we are, at a coffee shop, at work, at a night out with the girls the inevitable topic are the men. But the real question is do we need them so much that we can not imagine life without them?
Here are some examples that will prompt you to ask yourself which type of woman you are.
“I can’t live without him, he’s so perfect ….”
You must have a close friend who talks like this about her boyfriend or even her crush. If you do not, then you have surely heard this sentence countless times. But the problem is that most women idealize a man and put him on a pedestal. She is confident in herself only if she has a man beside her. Uncertainty and self-confidence that she does not possess are concealed exactly in this way.
“He’s handsome, could be great for a commitment-free relationship…”
Women who think this way have a reason for doing so. They were hurt by previous experiences, they had long relationships and were tired of that, so now they just want an open relationship without any pressure, stress, and without getting attached. They want to enjoy life, focus on some other things, and if it is meant to be, the perfect man will appear.
“We’re dating for a very long time, it’s nice, we’ll see how it’ll go day by day…”
This type of woman is aware of herself and her partner. She simply found someone who suits her, she likes him a lot, but she knows that things can change as soon as tomorrow. She is working on her career, she wants her to be successful and she goes one step at a time.
“All men are the same, I don’t trust anyone …”
When someone hurts you, it is no wonder you will have this attitude towards the other sex. You made a barrier, focused on yourself and only on yourself and now you do not want to give a chance to other people to get to know you. You must know that they are not really all the same, and when you least hope, you may be introduced to someone who will change that opinion.
“What happens, happens, it’s not that I really need a man…”
Never forget the spectacular sentence of Samanta from the Sex and the City series: “I love you too, Richard, but I love me more.” So she said that it was OK to love a man but to always put ourselves in the first place. If something does not work, even if you have feelings for the guy, it is okay to end that and move on.
What If We End Up With One of These?
Well, the sex doll industry is rising and therefore, the industry is always looking for new ways to please people. Firstly it was men-focused, but now we have a whole new level of “entertainment”. Sex dolls designed only for women and their needs. If you want to read more about this read this article.
So women, love yourself, respect yourself, build yourself up, always learn something new, travel, go out and never let a man control you. We do not need them, but a real man who will be there to encourage you to be even more successful, to respect you, love you, make you laugh is just perfect for you, even with all his flaws. Everything is up to you… I wish you all the luck!